Add --version flag and enforce --long flags via pflag

Switches CLI flag parsing from Go's stdlib `flag` to spf13/pflag so
`--project` (and the internal `--socket` / `--identity` / `--scenario`
flags) are the only accepted form; single-hyphen long flags like
`-project` are now rejected. Help output renders the canonical `--`
form.

Adds `patterm --version`, which prints the build version, short commit,
and build date (e.g. `patterm v0.0.1 (commit abc1234, built 2026-05-14)`).
The version string is injected at build time — `make patterm` derives it
from `git describe --tags --always --dirty`, and the release workflow
injects the pushed tag. Commit/date come from the Go toolchain's
embedded VCS info via `runtime/debug.ReadBuildInfo`, so no manual
bumping is required.

Makefile

@@ -32,11 +32,13 @@ deps-build: $(INSTALL)/lib/libghostty-vt.a
 clean-deps:
 	rm -rf $(SOURCE) $(INSTALL)
 
+VERSION ?= $(shell git describe --tags --always --dirty 2>/dev/null || echo dev)
+
 spike: deps
 	go build -o ./bin/spike ./cmd/spike
 
 patterm: deps
-	go build -o ./bin/patterm ./cmd/patterm
+	go build -ldflags "-X main.version=$(VERSION)" -o ./bin/patterm ./cmd/patterm
 
 test: deps
 	go test ./...