Rename Kill to Close, add New Terminal palette entry, clean up exited terminals

- Palette's per-child "Kill <name>" action is now labelled "Close <name>"
  (action kind unchanged; still SIGTERM). Matches the existing "Close
  agent: …" context entry and reads less violent for a graceful term.
- New "New Terminal" palette entry spawns a bare interactive $SHELL pane
  via LaunchTerminal (kind=terminal). Replaces the default "shell"
  process preset that was seeded on first run.
- Exited KindTerminal entries are now dropped from the session in
  reapChild — terminals have no restart path, so leaving them behind as
  greyed rows in the Processes sidebar was just clutter. processList
  also filters defensively.

internal/app/tree.go

@@ -96,17 +96,24 @@ func firstRunningAgentID(children []*Child) string {
 }
 
 // processList returns every top-level command/terminal entry in spawn
-// order, regardless of running state. The Processes sidebar section
-// keeps showing exited entries so the user can see what just died (and
-// because Session retains KindCommand entries for restart).
+// order. Exited KindCommand entries remain visible so the user can see
+// what just died and reach restart_process; exited KindTerminal entries
+// are filtered out because terminals are ephemeral and have no restart
+// path (Session also drops them in reapChild — this filter is defensive
+// for any window between exit and deletion).
 func processList(children []*Child) []*Child {
 	out := make([]*Child, 0, len(children))
 	for _, c := range children {
 		if c.ParentID != "" {
 			continue
 		}
-		if c.Kind == KindCommand || c.Kind == KindTerminal {
+		switch c.Kind {
+		case KindCommand:
 			out = append(out, c)
+		case KindTerminal:
+			if c.Status() == StatusRunning {
+				out = append(out, c)
+			}
 		}
 	}
 	return out