Rename Kill to Close, add New Terminal palette entry, clean up exited terminals

- Palette's per-child "Kill <name>" action is now labelled "Close <name>"
  (action kind unchanged; still SIGTERM). Matches the existing "Close
  agent: …" context entry and reads less violent for a graceful term.
- New "New Terminal" palette entry spawns a bare interactive $SHELL pane
  via LaunchTerminal (kind=terminal). Replaces the default "shell"
  process preset that was seeded on first run.
- Exited KindTerminal entries are now dropped from the session in
  reapChild — terminals have no restart path, so leaving them behind as
  greyed rows in the Processes sidebar was just clutter. processList
  also filters defensively.

internal/app/app.go

@@ -1607,6 +1607,13 @@ func (st *uiState) closePalette(action paletteAction) {
 			st.flashError(fmt.Sprintf("spawn %s: %v", action.preset.Name, err))
 		}
 
+	case "spawn-terminal":
+		l := st.layoutSnapshot()
+		st.launcher.SetSize(l.childCols(), l.childRows())
+		if _, err := st.launcher.LaunchTerminal(nil, "terminal", "", "", nil); err != nil {
+			st.flashError(fmt.Sprintf("spawn terminal: %v", err))
+		}
+
 	case "spawn-process-submit":
 		if action.command == "" {
 			restoreView()